Give the Most Extraordinary Gift
Surrogates are remarkable people — and we treat you that way. From first application to final delivery, Alpha Fidelis supports you at every step.
To become a gestational surrogate in California, you must be 21–39 years old, have previously given birth and be raising at least one child, have a BMI of 32 or below, and be a non-smoker with no drug use. Surrogates earn $50,000+ (first-time) or$60,000+ (experienced) in base compensation, plus full medical coverage, independent legal representation, and monthly allowances — all paid by the intended parents.
Understanding
Gestational Surrogacy
A gestational surrogate — also called a gestational carrier — carries a pregnancy for another person or couple. The baby is created through IVF using the intended parents' embryo (or a donor embryo). You share no genetic connection with the child you carry.
Unlike traditional surrogacy (where the surrogate uses her own egg), gestational surrogacy involves only the transfer of an already-created embryo into your uterus. You are giving the embryo a safe, healthy home for nine months — that is your extraordinary contribution.
The medications involved are similar to hormone support used in fertility treatments, and the embryo transfer itself is a brief, non-surgical procedure. As with any pregnancy, there are medical risks — our medical team reviews your health history carefully during screening, and your health and safety are monitored closely throughout.
Why Women Become Surrogates
We have screened thousands of applicants. The ones who thrive are not always the most confident on paper — they are the ones who show up honest and clear about why they are doing this.
Basic Requirements
These are the baseline criteria. Not every situation is black-and-white — if you are unsure whether you qualify, reach out and we will talk through your specific circumstances.
From Application
to Match
Our screening process typically takes 6–10 weeks. We move at a pace that is comfortable for you.
Submit Your Application
Fill out our online surrogate inquiry form. Our team reviews every application within 2 business days. If you appear to meet our basic criteria, we will reach out to schedule a phone screening.
Phone Screening with a Coordinator
A member of our surrogate team will call you for a relaxed, confidential conversation. We want to hear your story, understand your motivations, and answer your questions. This is not an interview with right or wrong answers — it is simply a chance to get to know each other.
Medical Records Review
We request your obstetric records from previous deliveries and any relevant medical history. Our team, along with a consulting IVF physician, reviews your records for medical pre-qualification. We handle obtaining the records directly from your providers.
Social Screening Video Interview
A face-to-face video call with your assigned coordinator. We get to know your home situation, discuss your support system, explore your motivations more deeply, and cover what expectations will look like during the journey. This helps us find you the best possible match.
Partner or Spouse Meeting (if applicable)
If you have a partner or spouse, we schedule a separate video call to ensure they fully understand and support the surrogacy process. A strong support system at home is one of the most important factors in a successful journey.
Background Check & Welcome Packet
You and your partner (if applicable) complete a background check. We send your welcome packet with all the paperwork needed to move forward, including identification documents and income information used to calculate any lost-wages coverage.
Medical Pre-Screening
Before matching, we complete a uterine lining assessment — either a mock cycle with your local OB or a baseline ultrasound depending on your contraception method. This confirms your uterine lining is adequate and screens for fibroids, polyps, or other concerns before you are presented to intended parents.
Psychological Evaluation
A licensed mental health professional specializing in third-party reproduction conducts an evaluation — typically a video call plus a written assessment (MMPI-2). This is standard for all surrogacy programs and is designed to ensure you are emotionally prepared, not to disqualify you.
Matching with Intended Parents
Once you have cleared all screening steps, we begin the matching process. You receive a "Dear Surrogate" letter from potential intended parents along with their profile. When both you and the intended parents feel excited about the match, we arrange an introductory video call. You always have the right to decline a match.
You Are Never
Alone in This
Dedicated Case Coordinator
You are assigned a coordinator who knows your case inside and out and is your primary point of contact for the entire journey.
On-Call Support
Questions do not keep business hours. Our team is available outside normal hours for urgent concerns during your pregnancy.
Mental Health Support
Access to surrogacy-experienced therapists and counselors throughout your journey — not just during the evaluation phase.
Legal Representation
You have your own reproductive attorney — separate from the intended parents' attorney — to review and negotiate the Gestational Surrogacy Agreement.
Learn more →Insurance Review
We review your existing health insurance for surrogacy coverage. If your policy excludes surrogacy, we coordinate a supplemental maternity policy at no cost to you.
Surrogate Community
Connect with other Alpha Fidelis surrogates — past and present. Our community events and private groups provide connection with people who truly understand your experience.
You Deserve to Be Well Compensated
Alpha Fidelis surrogates receive a base pay starting at $50,000+ for first-time surrogates and $60,000+ for experienced surrogates, paid throughout your journey. In addition to base pay, you receive allowances and bonuses that are designed to cover expenses related to the surrogacy, so you are not expected to pay out of pocket for the journey.
"The Alpha Fidelis team made me feel valued and supported from day one. I always knew I had someone in my corner throughout the pregnancy."
Surrogate FAQs
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Submit your application and a member of our surrogate team will reach out within 2 business days. No commitment required — just a conversation.
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